20 November 2008

But it's too hard......


This is often my battle cry when I'm losing the fight, it's rather lacking in it's Braveheart type inspiration. I'll say this over and over again at many junctures until I convince myself that it really is too hard and lay back down on the couch and read some trashy magazine to lift my spirits.

This is how some of those scenarios go:


Hopeful me: So I guess I should get up and do some exercise now, it's a beautiful day and The Beasts would love to go for a walk in the park.
Sabotaging me: The park is so far away, I'm sure I should check Facebook again and you know, it's just too hard.......

HM: There's plenty of food in the fridge to whip up a tasty lunch to take to work tomorrow that way I'm not led astray by the smell of the deep fryer
SM: It will take soooo long to make lunch and it will be so easy to just buy something, that next show on TV will be really good, I guess it's too hard really.

HM: Today is a new day, I'm going to look after myself and be happy.
SM: Who are you kidding, be happy? That's way too hard, besides there's left over cake in the fridge for breakfast.

You see the pattern? The thing is I've tried and tried to stop using the hardness factor as an excuse, I even wore an elastic band around my wrist and flicked it every time I said it was too hard, to try the pain with association thing, all I got out of that were welts. I mean, really, it's just too hard (ha!). So I've devised a new plan, based on absolutely no amount of research on any kind of psychological behavior modification techniques, just me, my brilliant brain and too much time on my hands. The Plan: remember something I've done that was actually hard and think of that when I start to chant my "it's too hard" mantra.

This is how it went......

HM: Wow, it's so warm let's pick The Ninja up from work and go for a swim at the beach.
SM: But it's too hard, I have to put my swimmers on and get in the car and drive there.
HM: That's not hard, working night shift for a year and studying full-time, that was hard, this is nothing.
SM: Oh yeah

HM: I've got all those veges in the fridge I'll make a stir fry for dinner and steam some fish just the way I like it.
SM: Awww but that's way too hard, I have to chop the veges and put them in the wok and peel the garlic and slice the ginger for the fish.
HM: That's not hard, diving into a freezing cold river in the middle of winter when all your instincts are telling you not to, that was hard, this is a piece of cake (wholemeal, fat and taste free of course!).
SM: Damn, you got me.

HM: I'm going to keep a food diary because I know it keeps me on track and it's a great way to assess what's really going on.
SM: That is way way too hard, I have to write down everything I eat everyday, there's no way I can keep that up, it's so hard I shouldn't even bother starting.
HM: No way, that's not hard, trekking across an island with an 17kg pack in the 38 degree heat, that was hard, this is, well, a piece of piss.
SM: Geez, I give up, but this isn't the last you'll hear of me *evil laugh*

Surprisingly simple yet powerfully effective, I really have no excuse now. Let's see how that goes.

"In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity"
Albert Einstein



By the way I lost 1.4kg this week :)

4 comments:

  1. Go Bernie!!!!!!! You legend.
    You know listening to your inner-selves reminds me a lot of me trying to write my thesis- of procrastinating all the time- of not feeling smart enough or good enough or academic enough- undermining myself. I find that I always have to remind myself this isn't an all or nothing venture... and there is no quick fix solution.

    Keep writing.
    Its inspiring.
    xxxxxxxx

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  2. As u know I don't "decide" to do things well, and punish myself for having not done things.. all of which has a similar angle.

    Someone once said to me, "don't worry so much about which thing you'll do, just DO something!"

    And to get up off that couch IS the thing, from what I can see of your posts.
    I do that one too much myself, "aaa I'll go for a walk tomorrow...." when NOW, everyday is THE time to be going for the walk.

    I reckon maybe get that head halter for the [big] beast because it will make the walking with her a lot less -difficult-/unappealing ... you know I love dogs but I'm never keen to take those crazy pooches anywhere for that reason :)
    "aa it's too hard" (giggle)


    hugs

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  3. I am so proud of you Berni!
    Keep going you good thing. Congratulations on the 1.4kgs.
    You are inspirational and brave my sis

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  4. Awww thanks guys, youse da best :)

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